That's the thing: you don't understand how coral wholesale works even at a basic level. You can quadruple their minimums and they won't care, because they know that the home hobbyist isn't going to do that every week. The guys getting the stuff you want are spending $1-3k every week, and you can't "give away most of it" because, as I mentioned earlier, at that point you'd be paying significantly more than you would as a hobbyist.
I worked in coral wholesale for 4 years after having a coral store for 6 years, and still do consulting for some shops. Every other day people like you would call thinking they had a golden ticket, and the biggest reason wholesalers don't deal with home vendors anymore is because after the only order they'd ever make they would call and complain that it wasn't the quality they expected.
Being condescending to people with significantly more experience than you for not giving you the answers you want to hear kind of defeats the purpose of asking in the first place.