HI
I think that I know which ones of my 4 are the pair, as they sit closer together than the other two, but sometimes I find them in different burrows, apparently "visiting" each other. As they are mouthbreeders the juveniles must be rather large, so if you don't have a lot of big and hungry fishes in your tank, you may have a chance to catch the fry after being released. I don't know whether the fishes release larvae or fully developed fishes. I presume the latter, otherwise the mouthbreeding wouldn't be so effective.
As I already wrote, I have 4 in a 110 gal, but they all live in one corner, taking up max 1/3 of the tank. As long as they find spaces to build their burrows, you can add quite a few of them.
A group of 10 in a 360 would be awesome!
If you get them to breed successfully, please let me know.
Best wishes
Jens