the reason for all the extra feedings is this anemone had a bad accident where it went into a very tight spot and ripped its entire side open and all its inards where exposed, after hard work from both of us mostly him it finally healed up, I refused to give up on him, during his injury his zooanthelles were dying, and thus the color loss, since he healed up his coloring is coming back by leaps and bounds, He is definatly not starving all his food stays in him, as soon as i give him food he grabs it all and closes up around it very fast and in less than 5 mins all the food is gone, right now he gets shelled table shrimp thawed and mysid shrimp, silversides are not avail in my area, I have looked everywhere and none to be found, he does look puffy almost always unless he is going to the bathroom which is about once somtimes twice a week