velvetelvis
Active member
FWIW, I would not have tried to pair up a female that has already had another mate. The instinct in established females to chase away other fish is very strong, even stronger than her desire to find a mate. I have found it very difficult to re-pair female clowns when their mate dies. It is way easier to add a juvie to an established male and wait a few months for the male to change over. If the ocellaris pair was yours and you still have the male, I would try him instead of the female.
The other best option would be to get two juvie fish to start with. Yes, they still might break up when the female gets to breeding size, but at least the male will know how to appease her a little at that point.
Is this true for all clownfish, or just the species being discussed? I ask because I'm trying to pair my CB female nigripes up with a small juvenile, after having to remove the male that she was previously "paired" with (I don't think they ever bonded--she was bullying him at the store).