I would not bother feeding any rotifers to your tank dead or alive, you keep mentioning your anemone, that is one of your animals that could care a less about the rotifers, their size is to small. If you do not have quite a few sps I would not bother adding any rotifers to your tank (they may do more harm then good).
Like stated above make sure not to remove the pot before the eggs are ready to hatch. You want to remove it the day they are going to hatch, and keep their light cycle in the hatch tank the same as the DT. Don't worry about your male eating eggs, he may eat eggs that are not bad, he may eat the complete clutch the first few times, but he has to learn and his ability to care for the eggs is needed or your eggs will turn white with bacterial infections.
When you have eggs continue to ask questions and I will give you whatever advice I can, until then just give your clowns some time to spawn

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If your rotifers have crashed I wouldn't start up another culture until your clowns lay a clutch, no reason to waste money raising rotifers until your clowns have at least began their laying cycle.
I would also skip brine, its a personal choice and slighting more expensive, but feeding brine is not very nutritious and is definately a lot more time consuming. OtoA works great for me as a supplement and I start feeding it around day 3 to get them use to it (overlap the oto and the rotifers).