They are ok to use in refugiums, but they are weak and cannot hold on in the flow of most tanks. They will get carried into the overflow.They, like all nudibranchs are specialized feeders. Once they finish off the planeria{if you are lucky enough to keep them alive that long} they will starve and die. Then new flatworms will emerge after they are gone. For every fw you see, there are dozens more you don't, and eggs waiting to hatch. My best luck with velvet nudis was when I kept three. They would do this display with each other, very cool to watch. I thought they were done eating all the fw's. I worried about them starving so I found new homes for them. At the time I wished I would have kept them, because shortly after removing them the fw's returned.
Get some fw killer, I think there is a new one on the market. The key is to remove all visible fw's before you begin, to reduce the amount of toxin expelled by them as they die. Have a large water change ready after the time the directions say to leave the product. You may have to try a couple times before they are all gone. I finally beat them, I only had them in my refugium though. I gutted it and cleaned it out, no more fw's. I am surprised you would consider keeping such a beautiful creature, that really should be left in the ocean.