Let me start out with that I am very sorry that my post, threads, thoughts, questions, etc. are all over the place. I was told by many many people that I am going to fast and I am all over the place. I just had some questions but I know that there were too many. I am thankful for those of you that told me these things and those of you that still answered my questions. Really! I understand that you guys have a life(tank

) too. I learned to ask questions in one thread and too take it slow, but if you don't mind me asking what do you guys mean by taking it slow? Thank you for answering all my nooby questions and I am truly sorry if I agrivated you. I must be a pain in the butt[on]

I hope you still have the time and hope I don't get you mad from these questions. I just could use some critiecs and experties. Thank you!
Info of my tank: I have a 36 gallon bow front (30"L and 19"H) with a marine land penguin 280 hob filter with a bio wheel and a sea clone instant ocean protein skimmer that goes up to 100 gallons. No sump (yet) but I want to get one in the future, but right now it is too much. If you want you could give me some tips on making a sump or getting one, but you don't have too. I have to power heads that have the tank going in a circular motion. I have 30lbs. of porous live rock and 30lbs. of live sand(agri-something, I can't remember). My QT is about 5-10gal. with a small tetra 5-10 gallon filter, a small heater, and I plan to get a small power head and a led light fixture for the coral. I might put something a little higher in the QT for the coral to be on, closer to the light. I plan to get and hang a marsaqua led light fixture.
1. Do you recommend to get the 16" marsaqua led and hang it a little higher to get full coverage, or just get the 24"?
probably wouldnt make a difference. some corals like direct light, others lesser
2. I was told by a bad lfs to start dosing all these supplements right away (reef complete, reef carbonate, iodide, strontium, marine buffer, and stability) for a while but I later learned that I shouldn't have so I stopped dosing all. And I am not dosing strontium or iodide any more. I don't plan to get stro. and iod. test since I won't be dosing them any more, should I have them tested at a lfs and find out if the levels are safe? Do you recommend to get separate dosing bottles? What dosing and tests should I absolutely have?
dont dose what you cant test and measure. playing mad scientist without tests and results is a quick way to crash a tank and start over.
3. What do you guys think about pet Co real ocean water? I have been using it.
probably fine for softies and lps and some sps. if you are grabbing a millepora, id probably want to make my own.
4. Do you recommend 10%WC 1xwk or 15% every other wk?
measure your nitrate and po4 increases each week. bigger increases demand bigger % water changes to export. otherwise incorporate more media like matrix, lr, fuge, ats etc
5. Do you guys have any tips on making you're tank and equipmen look really nice?
good husbandry. weekend cleaning. no whack parameters of calcium precipitation or po4 through the roof.
6. I was thinking about using blue wrapping paper as a background for my tank. I might get the chance to laminate it but probably not. What do think about using it? Would I be able to use the apply stuff/solution?
why? the corraline and other algae are on the inside and will cover it up. again... good husbandry. if you like it, go ahead though. ive seen many different back-tank covers and this will work just fine.
7. Do you think I would be happy with a softie only tank or will I eventually want lps or sps because of "how cool they are"? What is the lowest lighting/fixture (ex.?) possible for softies? I would only go a softie dominant tank to save money on the lights, but if I won't be happy having only softies (which I don't think I will) I will get the more expensive lights.
avoid xenias. put green star polyps in a place you can remove easily. generally if you can keep softies you can keep lps ime. i could be wrong if you are using some 5w cfl you got at walmart for lighting. some lps can be forgiving as well
8. I saw a refractometer for about 20 bucks and it had the same accuracy rating as a hydrometer. Is it still better or is it a cheap one? If so what are the prices of the good ones?
should be fine as long as it is calibrated. use tap or rodi/distilled water and make sure it hits 0. if you have to use calibration fluid your refractometer is shot. distilled water will always be 0
9. So i plan to order a diy brs screen top kit and make one fit for my tank because it is really hard to find a clear top for it and they are a little pricy. I am going to do a little modifications but do you think i could do it? Any tips or cheap alternatives?
i dont know. is bob villa your dad? should be simple enough, but that is on you
10. How are you suppost to keep stable needed water parameters/trace elements in a QT for corals and inverts? How much and how often should I do WC for the QT? What other maintence is needed for a QT? Would a small diy protien skimmer be good?
water changes only with a quality salt mix
11. If I wait a little bit after the tank has cycled (like if I'm not ready or something) would I start to starve the lr and ls? How long would I have? How could I keep the live rock and sand from starving?
roughly a month. they are hardy. however the colonies will be greatly diminished. this is just my experience only.
12. Is it OK to use the same siphon, net, drip container, etc. between your DT and QT? How would you clean/disinfect those? Do you know how to make a diy quick and cheap siphon or net?
use the same one. doesnt matter ime. most parasites are on a host. not your net.
13. How do you clean/disinfect a QT and everything with it after a disease, etc. was introduced? How do you clean it and make it safe for corals and inverts from the use of carbon and other bad things for them?
empty and refill. copper doesnt hang around in silicone like other misnomers state.
14. Any good maintence tips?
if you have a shallow sand bed clean it weekly. never ever neglect the substrate or you will kick yourself. one popular method is to siphon sand from the dt to a filter sock in the sump
15. Do I really even need my filter if I have a skimmer? Would the tank be OK with just the skimmer? Or vise versa?
filter will grab more uneaten debris ime. skimmer will grab everything, including life that eats debris.
16. Any other tips? Would be nice!
keep nitrates above phosphates and never hit absolute 0.
17. Any cool, interesting , fun, etc. fish, coral, and inverts you recommend?
duncans based on your questions. also watchman goby pistol shrimp pair.
Thank you so much for taking your time to answer my questions!!!!!!

Sorry it is sooooo long........