Decrease in nitrate or denitrification is NOT a part of cycling...
I'm going to have to disagree with you on this. Anaerobic bacteria convert nitrate into nitrogen gas. This is an important part of getting the nitrates out of the system. It may not be as important as the conversion of ammonia to nitrite, but it still is very important.
I don't think throwing all that matter in at once and getting a spike in ammonia is a good thing, especially on rock that you are trying to save all the life on. All the clams, algae, worms, snails, etc, you want in the tank. spiking ammonia is not a good thing IMO.
If you are seriously looking to cycle with minimal die off, but be ready for fish at the end, you may consider this.
Get the live rock in the tank with saltwater. Wait 3 days. Start adding pellets, pieces of shrimp, etc very and ramp it up every day. For example, on day 3 add 3 pellets. On day four, add 4. On day 5, add 5. Continue for 3 weeks. This should create a large bacteria population without spiking ammonia. The bacteria will gradually increase. You could base your feeding nothing in the tank by what you planned on stocking after the cycle.
Every time you add a new fish, you could do the same thing. Get the fish and put it in quarantine, and feed the display more and more until you are ready to put the fish in.