I think a lot depends on where you live. I live in the northeast, on Long Island. Summer is high 80 to mid 90 with humidity sometimes 80% or more for a few weeks. There is just no way evaporative cooling is going to work with that kind of humidity outside. You can run the AC when it's real hot, but that means you have to always be home when it's hot or run the AC all the time, not an option for many people. If you live in an area such as mine I really can't see you not getting a chiller, why would you spends thousands of dollars on a reef only to be worried your cooling methods could easily fail and wipe out the tank?
Everyone has different experience with a dehumidifier. I have a whirlpool from a few years ago that is loud, but it's in the basement, and it easily keeps the humidly at 45% in the summer. The heat it puts out is nothing compared to the chiller. An exhaust fan I think is worth considering, you just have to figure out how you are going to replace the air leaving? If it is from the outside and it real humid it seems that you are defeating the purpose.
Don't really have an answer as I am trying to decide to keep my dehumidifier setup or use some kind of a vent system.