As they say gents, "you can lead a horse to water...".
Using a truly mondo capacitance to run a relay is a bad idea for many reasons. Cost. Reliability. Drive failure. And relay contact damage. Relays are supposed to snap open and closed. Using a cap like this to abuse the relay causes the relay contacts to separate at a snail's pace. This causes lots of arcing that melts the relay contacts. It's probably the best way out there for toasting a relay quickly.
Thanks, that makes sense with the slow turn on/off causing damage. I'm no longer looking at just using a capacitor across the coil. I'm trying to evaluate multiple options and find the one that best fits my needs/wants for the system.
I have not bothered to look at the schematic, but kcress is correct. The relay needs to be switched via a rapid rising and falling edge. There a certainly ways to do this with an RC circuit and transistors or a 555 timer...
In fact, the 555 timer (monostable) would give you the ability to create both the rapid state transistion AND adjustability.
But again, why? Latching (relay) circuits run everything from elevators to water treatment facilities and power plants. They are for the most part bulletproof with no delicate discrete components to be damaged.
Thank you, the 555 timer does look like an interesting option
I believe that the latching relay is very bulletproof, but I don't have 100% faith in the float switches. With the latching relay, if the high water level float switch gets stuck, the entire reservoir could be dumped into the system. A latching relay circuit with a 3rd float switch for backup would work, but I am trying to see what other options exist.