Man i see this is a tough crowd , i am not a member YET. Is this not all in black and white in C-Sea bylaws ?? if its not in there then do what ya do to get it changed .These folks who do these (and most) so called "tours" of any kind, could darn careless if they eat Pizza from the local hot spot at the meeting, or a nice lunch/dinner out on the town. Its not about that to them. As far as the Officer that took him to get a bite ,,,,good job !!!
I could go to lunch and dinner 7 days and nights a week with my accounts but i never go (i would rather spend the time with the family & fish) , it is VERY COMMON in the business world to be taken by the host to eat somewhere, and trust me the guy who came here would much rather be sitting in his recliner, at home with his family. It is a reflection of your club and its members. and should be common practice,
Treat your guests nice, or you wont have any. And you will have to meet and listen to same person every month. yuck .............