Hello, Geezer coming back to this forum. Paul B

I posted this 5 years ago:

I am not the smartest fish keeper in the world, but I am probably one of the oldest. Being one of the oldest, I have also had more time to study this stuff and more time to make mistakes. Mistakes are one way we learn. A very good way.

It's actually how they train you in basic training in the Army or Marines. By forcing you to do impossible tasks, knowing you can't do them, then punishing you for not doing it correctly. Eventually, you learn what they want you to do while never completing those tasks correctly.

Trust me, it works.

I was a Noob at one time and that time was the 1950s, yes the world as we know it was around then and so were fish. We had the same problems then as we do now but a few of us learned, after many dead fish what we were doing wrong and I think I got it.

Most people in this hobby do something and it works, and they think they found the secret, but we may be talking about a time frame of a few months or a couple of years. A common hermit crab lives over 12 years so if we keep one for a couple of years, it is not "Great Success". To have a reef tank for four or five years without crashing, although is an accomplishment that few people ever attain is also not a Great Success and we should strive for more. We should always strive for more.

IMO a reef tank should be immortal or "live" as long as it's owner. Of course fish are not immortal, but most of them live much longer than people stay in this hobby.

Corals are immortal and can keep living while growing new polyps on top of older ones. That’s how reefs grow.

I feel the biggest mistake we make (and us Geezers who started this hobby are the cause) is keeping our tanks to clean.

Our gravel or sand is to clean, and our food is to clean and our water is to clean.

I will get to clean water later as it even sounds weird to me.

Fish, birds, whales, lizzards, earthworms, Liberals, Conservatives and us all have a symbiotic relationship with bacteria, viruses and parasites.

Viruses, bacteria and parasites have been here longer than us and will be here when we all go to Mars because this planet has nothing left but plastic.

In a tank, any tank, except a quarantined or medicated tank, bacteria run everything. We forget about them, but it is the bacteria that call the shots, not us.

Bacteria have their own problems as viruses also affect and kill them. Bacteria hate that.

Parasites are also infected by bacteria and viruses.

Probably funguses also, but I am guessing.

Anyway, we call those things “disease organisms” because they can make us sick, but we forget that without them, we couldn’t live.

Our stomach is loaded with both beneficial and harmful bacteria. They live in harmony along with the funguses and viruses. Seawater is loaded with all of those things and that is natural and the way it should be.

We have problems when we mess with that system. If we kill bacteria, the viruses can take over as can the parasites.

If we for instance use copper, we will kill the parasites and bacteria, but not the viruses.

We really can’t kill the viruses (as Covid 19 taught us) because viruses are not alive to start with but we can disintegrate them using UV light or ozone.

So if we kill one of the pathogens, we allow the remaining ones to thrive and cause problems.

We can of course kill everything by using drugs along with UV and Ozone but should we?

It sounds like a good plan but have you seen anyone who just had Chemo and radiation to kill cancer?

Those people have no immunity to anything and although they are kept in a sterile environment, many of them die anyway because we can’t live like that in the real world.

Neither can fish.

In some cases we do have to resort to that drastic measure and sometimes it works. But not usually and it could take years for that fish to regain its compliment of stomach flora where it could live a normal life free from disease with a functioning immune system.

The problem with killing everything is of course that the bacteria, parasites and viruses will all infect the fish at different times and whichever comes first can overwhelm the fishes immune system because those things no longer are living in harmony where they can all keep each other in check.

In nature none of those pathogens get the upper hand because they evolved to counteract each other.

If we disrupt the cycle, we cause problems and tank crashes.

I propose, and it has worked for decades for me and other successful aquarists with long lasting reefs, that instead of trying to limit or eliminate natural pathogens leaving the fish open to disease, we cultivate those things, "in proportion" with each other leaving the fish with a strong immune system that it evolved with.

Remember, in the sea the fish are living with every aquatic disease there is with no problem. They only have problems after they are collected, shipped and put in our tanks.

There is no reason for them to have problems as my fish realize including my almost 30 year olds.

I know many, or all the fish we buy don’t look very good and are all infected with something. But remember, they are “always” infected with something because fish eat and breathe pathogens as they live. In the sea their immune system has no problems dealing with those afflictions because the fish is not stressed and is eating there natural food which is loaded with bacteria.

It’s the pathogens that tell the fishes immune system what method to use to eradicate that organism.

Remember in the sea fish normally eat living prey. They rarely eat sterile pellets, flakes or freeze dried anything. The prey they eat is always loaded with bacteria, parasites and viruses in the same proportions as are already in the fishes gut. Fish and us can’t digest food without bacteria which is the reason so many fish die while being medicated with copper or other drugs. It kills their stomach bacteria. It’s simple.

I mentioned before that our water is to clean and that may sound counterproductive because coral reefs are thought to be pristine. But the difference in water from a coral reef and our tanks is that the water on a coral reef has been there long before Betty White was born and many of our tanks were started a week from last Tuesday. Seawater actually gets better with age, to an extent.

If new, clean seawater was so good, why do new tanks look lousy? Why do new tanks, with all new water have so many diseases? Why do Noobs lose so many fish?

It’s because bacteria, viruses, corals, seaweed, rocks, meteorites, shipwrecks, whales and waste water from frankfurter carts in New York City all end up in the sea and all of those things are what fish evolved in. OK, maybe not the frankfurter carts. But it takes time for those organisms to reach a point where they are in sync with each other and none of them out weigh or out perform each other.

I was also under the impression that we needed to keep everything sterile. I wouldn’t think to put my hands in the tank without rinsing many times to get every trace of soap off.

I tried very hard to keep dirt out of my tank and vacuumed up every last bit of un eaten food.

I was wrong.

Now I take mud from a salt water bay and throw it in. I take garden soil (without pesticides) and throw it in. I feed earthworms full of dirt. I feed clams, mussels and whiteworms with as much dirt attached as I can find.

I never quarantine or medicate unless I purposely buy a very sick fish that I know will not live through the night and I experiment with questionable results.

I never worry if a fish I buy is in the same tank as fish with spots.



What I do is take that fish home as soon as I can and after a short acclimation, place it in my tank and try to get natural food into it. Natural food with living bacteria in it which is not usually commercially purchased food.

That food is deep frozen or irradiated to kill bacteria. I do use that food but I always supplement it with the foods I mentioned because without fresh, living bacteria, fish will always be at risk of dying from just about anything.



If you don’t believe any of this, go and watch Oprah give away Cadillacs to stray cats.



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Unfortunately I received bad news last night. My close friend of over 40 years has 4th stage colon cancer.

Two weeks ago he went for a routine colonoscopy and got the news. He seemed to be in perfect health, he exercised all the time by playing tennis and racquetball and ate very healthy.

He has two Daughters and one just got engaged but we don't think he will even make the wedding.
I feel awful.

If he dies, he will be my 5th friend who passed in the last few years. I am about in the middle age wise. It's tough when all your close friends are dying. My old crowd is getting smaller every year and even though I realize this is the way it is and has always been, it is still depressing. His wife is going crazy and I don't blame her.
 
Last night in the pouring rain our power went out. So I called the electric company and informed them because it was only my block and not the east coast of the US.

Usually it comes right back on so I just got some of my battery lights and candles so we could see. My wife was in the bath tub so I gave her a candle.

After 20 minutes my fish had the look of horror on their faces so I started the generator. The power dept. trucks came and fixed the problem on the pole and the lights came back on.

Of course some of my neighbors came over to plug extension cords into my generator because I am so "lucky" that I have a generator. 😁
 
WVNED. I am a big planner. I have emergency lights up in places that I will need in a blackout like over my electrical panel, my generator and the outlet where I plug my generator in. They automatically come on in a blackout. I also have flashlights all over the place like next to my beds, generator and panel as well as candles and a couple of propane lanterns.

I have 10 extra gallons of gas for my generator because it's not built in. I have to actually start it and plug it in. It will run about 5 hours on a tank of gas.
Twice a year I run that generator and every year I dump all that gas in my car and get new gas.

We have almost 300 homes in my community here and I am pretty sure I was the only home that had lights on last night. Almost no one is prepared for emergencies, and I just don't get it.

If I don't want to start my generator I have a battery jump starter for my car that I keep charged that will run my furnace or fish tank for a few hours. 😁

In my last house I had a lot of sidewalk to shovel and it used to snow hard in those days. In a snow storm where we may have a foot of snow I was out there with my snow blower. My neighbors would come by with their shovels telling me how "lucky" I was to have a generator. Like I went down to the sea and rubbed a magic lamp and it just appeared. :cool:

Some people are just so lazy or just don't know how to do simple things. :oops:

Every time it snowed, I made one or two months salary plowing snow.

 
So sorry to hear about your friend!


. . . If we disrupt the cycle, we cause problems . . .

This is so true! Look at all the chronic* and acute problems people in "developed" countries have that don't afflict indigenous peoples because they still have healthy microbiomes. Just the number of people who die each year (1) (2) from infections AFTER they're given antibiotics should give everyone pause about indiscriminately killing off stuff in any ecosystem, whether it's our body or our reef systems


*Search teh internet with the term "Invisible Extinction"
 
MO a reef tank should be immortal or "live" as long as it's owner. Of course fish are not immortal, but most of them live much longer than people stay in this hobby.

Corals are immortal and can keep living while growing new polyps on top of older ones. That’s how reefs grow.

This has been on my mind a lot lately! Saw someone posting about a 25yr+ old clownfish. When I look at mine (merely 3 or 4 years old now) they seem healthier and stronger than ever and it makes me wonder how long I can get them to live.

Now I take mud from a salt water bay and throw it in. I take garden soil (without pesticides) and throw it in. I feed earthworms full of dirt. I feed clams, mussels and whiteworms with as much dirt attached as I can find.

I've seen you mention these things before. Makes me wonder about all the clams on our beach down below our house. My wife won't eat them. I can't remember what the old timers around here call the specific clams we have but they're plentiful, very easy to dig. My wife just says they're not very tasty.
Unfortunately I received bad news last night. My close friend of over 40 years has 4th stage colon cancer.

Two weeks ago he went for a routine colonoscopy and got the news. He seemed to be in perfect health, he exercised all the time by playing tennis and racquetball and ate very healthy.

He has two Daughters and one just got engaged but we don't think he will even make the wedding.
I feel awful.

If he dies, he will be my 5th friend who passed in the last few years. I am about in the middle age wise. It's tough when all your close friends are dying. My old crowd is getting smaller every year and even though I realize this is the way it is and has always been, it is still depressing. His wife is going crazy and I don't blame her.

I'm really sorry to hear that. I pray that he has a prolonged and meaninful life ahead of him despite this diganosis!! Despite being only 42, my circle are all in theirs 60s, 70s, and 80s because of the boating. One fellow was golfing with us last fall when I could tell he was struggling on a par 3 (83yrs old). He sat out 2 more holes, then finished the 18th with us. When we went to the banquet after, he said he was going to go home. He popped a nitroglycerin and said he was feeling better. We tried to offer him a ride home but he said no he was fine... he went home and got another stint!! turns out he was having a cardiac event and golfed anyways then drove himself home and had surgery. !! crazy old man. saw him at the club a few months later as he was making plans for his next round of golf.

We have almost 300 homes in my community here and I am pretty sure I was the only home that had lights on last night. Almost no one is prepared for emergencies, and I just don't get it.

If I don't want to start my generator I have a battery jump starter for my car that I keep charged that will run my furnace or fish tank for a few hours. 😁

In my last house I had a lot of sidewalk to shovel and it used to snow hard in those days. In a snow storm where we may have a foot of snow I was out there with my snow blower. My neighbors would come by with their shovels telling me how "lucky" I was to have a generator. Like I went down to the sea and rubbed a magic lamp and it just appeared. :cool:

Some people are just so lazy or just don't know how to do simple things.
To be fair, power outtages never bothered me and if I had to go a few days with nothing but wood fire heat (our normal anyways) and cooking on a gas stove, I'd be OK with it. It wasn't until my saltwater tanks started to really grow that it became more imporant to me to have the generator and jackery ready to go. Funny thing is, I actually bought the gen for boating and sleeping on the hook, but never once ended up doing that, always had shore power. so the Generator is used a few times a month in my shed, and ready as a backup if we get into trouble. the tank is the only thing I worry about in our house if we lose power for an extended period. Last month when the Puget Sound area got hit, a LOT of people lost their tanks.
 
Saw someone posting about a 25yr+ old clownfish. When I look at mine (merely 3 or 4 years old now) they seem healthier and stronger than ever and it makes me wonder how long I can get them to live.
Two of mine are about 35 years old and I have heard of one in his 40s.

We haven't lost power for more than a couple of hours since Sandy but at that time I was out for 3 or 4 days. Like you said, the fish tank needs power, I am fine. I lived for a year in Vietnam with no power or water and got by just fine. :)

My friend has stage 4 colon cancer and his prognosis isn't good. I haven't spoken to him yet but his wife says he will call me when he gets over the initial shock. I can't even imagine but if he dies, he will be my 5th close friend to go in the last 4 years. :(
 
I can't even imagine but if he dies, he will be my 5th close friend to go in the last 4 years. :(

What do you do in that scenario when the prognosis is bleak? pray for healing or simply enjoy what is left? My wife was diagnosed with cancer last fall and we had about 4-5 months that were touch and go while everything moved incredibly fast until finally her questionable mammogram in August led to a mastectomy in early december. Thank God, she had clean lymphnodes (found out Christmas eve) and in early January we found out no additional treatment would be needed (no chemo, radiation, etc) we often talk about how lucky we were and how great it was given a bad situation. When I look back on our mentality during that period of time though vs today, we briefly had a "you only live once" mentality and contemplated some major financial changes in a short period of time.

I really hope and pray for the best for your friend, and in turn the effects it all has on you as well.
 
Thank you Dustin. Sorry about your wife and I hope she is fine now.

My wife has had MS for over 20 years and of course it doesn't get better. I do everything and even have to put her shoes on. She walks with a walker and can't even stand without it. But life goes on and we take every day as it comes.
 
I decided that for my new book, (nothing about fish) I will donate any and all profits to "The Wounded Warriors" project. I dedicated the book to the almost 50 brave, young guys who lost their life fighting on April 1st 1970 on a remote Firebase in Vietnam.

I was very lucky that night and I really feel for those guys and I don't think enough is being done for them. Not that any meager profits from my book will help much but I think it's necessary.
 
I decided that for my new book, (nothing about fish) I will donate any and all profits to "The Wounded Warriors" project. I dedicated the book to the almost 50 brave, young guys who lost their life fighting on April 1st 1970 on a remote Firebase in Vietnam.

it's a special breed of men. A totally different culture of soldier. For all the brutality the 60s and early 70s inflicted on those of you that served that era, I have consistently seen a different kind of man (such as in my former father in law, a Marine serving around the same time). I have been in a family of military that I can trace back to the revolutionary war and each generation being defined by different conflicts in completely different ways than every other one. Those Vietnam vets are something great. Maybe I'm biased because that man shaped my teen years and 20s, but Vietnam vets are great parts of our society.

I think anything you do is going to be appreciated. Our YC did auctions locally for wounded warriors yearly, and though we never raised millions of dollars, I know the bits we did raise went to good use.

I'm grateful for you guys, and grateful for what society has learned from the attrocities the 'nam vets faced, especially when returning home.
 
I can't believe this is happening again in the same week. Another good friend is dying of cancer. Dennis was fine and playing golf two weeks ago and I just got a call they are putting him in hospice for lung cancer that spread. There is nothing they can do.

If he dies, it will be my 6th friend in 3 years that have died. I am really depressed
 
The oldest fish are a pair of almost 30 year old fireclowns which are still happy and still spawning.

I was thinking about this, I assume you let nature sort it out and don't try to do anything with the eggs yourself? we did not have the time or ability to setup a proper tank with our clowns spawned last month and our orchid dottyback found herself alone and well protected in a 10g tank for a week with nothing but one great rock of zoanthids and clownfish eggs. The eggs at some point hatched, and that dottyback is twice the size she was prior, it's actually funny how big she got in less than a month.
 
No, those days are gone, I don't raise any fry any more. Many of my fish spawn and It could be a full time job. I have raised many fish including seahorses in the past.

Getting back to reality, I doubt my friend Dennis made it through the night last night. I guess I will find out today,
 
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