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Wow Paul, your granddaughter sure is growing up fast, what a beautiful little girl!!

I have a question for you if you can help or offer advice. I have a tiger pistol paired w/ a randall. Have you ever noticed either of your pistols popping at the goby? My pistol is quite large & I've witnessed it about 3 times in the last few months, otherwise no problems with the shrimp.

I'm back to feeding the shrimp pellets or a piece algae wafer every day. I'd like to keep him but I don't want to lose any fish either. I'll have a 40 B ready to go in a few months so maybe the extra space will calm things down.
 
My 2 shrimp don't seem to bother anything and I never say them "pop", although I do hear them when they don't think I am around. I also never heard of them hurting a fish, those claws are mostly for digging although they look dangerous, I doubt they are, that's why they hide in holes and have that fish to warn them.
I would feed them something more meaty, like some clam or shrimp. I am not big on algae wafers even though I know they will eat it. I am not big on any type of dry food for anything except in an emergency.
I am waiting for this Polywog to come over as I will be Babysitting for a few days. I will take her on the boat as she likes that. I can't wait until she can come SCUBA diving.
She also needs to grow more hair as she looks like she has a receding hairline even though she has way more hair than I do.


 
I just came in from my garage and noticed a fairly large chunk of the ceiling came down. About 2'X5'. So I guess I have some work to do. It is not sheetrock but cement plaster so it is heavy and I have a shelf built under the ceiling so I have to take down all the Christmas stuff, crawl up there and put in new sheetrock. I am getting to old for this, but it is what it is and besides, I am retired. :headwally:
 
Thanks Paul, I also rotate between a few different frozen foods fed once a day. I have clams in the freezer but have been lazy. Guess it's time to crack those out.

Before you know it that little polywog will be out diving & have such pretty hair you'll be beating boys with a stick just to get them to leave her alone :)
 
Good Morning Paul,

First, Thank you for your service. I remember my parents talking when watching the news and hearing them comment about how the soldiers were brave and they were fighting so we (us kids) wouldn't have to. Thank you.
I, like many, am a silent lurker and just finished 31 pages of your thread. You have me hook, line, and sinker. You don't talk about statistics, and science (well a little!). You talk common sense and your decades long observations are invaluable.
So, I am just north of you living about 10 minutes from Narragansett Bay in Rhode Island. I am just returning to the hobby after about 25 years. After reading your thread, I started collecting NSW for my tank. I really don"t know why I didn't think to use it before. Subconscious fear of "bacteria"? Brought my first batch home, and just to be safe, I checked the SG because I was a few miles up into the bay......yep, it was 1.024, which is exactly what I was maintaining in my tank! I grabbed a few hermits and snails too (we called them periwinkles as kids). Like I said, I am just getting back into the hobby, lots of changes, lots to learn. I look forward to hearing more from you. Beautiful family you have. Enjoy summer! Can't wait to collect water in January. Separates the men from the boys. Maybe I will get my son to do it.
 
Doctorvu, thank you, what a nice post. Welcome back to the hobby. You read all 31 pages? I don't think I even read that many. I think the thread split a few times so it may be 3 times that number, but don't go back and look for it, I am sure I repeated myself many times as my wife tells me I do all the time.
Why do you have to wait for January to collect water? I collect it all year and my water which comes from the Gulf Stream is near you the next day. Well a little less because I take some before it gets to you.
As a kid, I used to worry about bacteria, but now I worry about not getting enough bacteria. I will be out boating this weekend and I will visit my favorite tide pool where I will hang out with my friends (hermit crabs, horseshoe crabs, fiddler crabs, blue claw crabs, Japanese shore crabs, amphipods, snails and maybe an eel or two) The thrill of seeing these creatures close up stayed with me since I was a toddler and has never left.
I still love to catch fiddler crabs just to check them out. I put them back in their hole when I leave. Amphipods come home with me and I think they enjoy my tank as it has many of the same scents as their home.:rolleyes:
As a small child my parents used to leave me with my cousins in the summer for a few weeks and one of my cousins worked in a beach club on the Sound. The place had a muddy beach and I was in my glory with all the animals I used to collect to put in a pool I would dig. Then when the tide came back in those creatures were glad to see me leave so they could go back to their normal lives.
Don't get me wrong, I also have many Human friends, but none of them share my interest in sea life except to eat it (which I also do)
My only fish friends are on forums like this one.
I love the sea and anything living in it as I grew up on Long Island and as I said many times, my family had a sea food business.
My Dad also loved the sea, He was born here on Canal street in Manhattan but coming from a long line of fisherman in Sicily it was in his blood as it is in mine. He died 54 years ago so I never got a chance to learn from him or to enjoy this hobby with him as I am sure he would have loved my tank. If he had a tank I am sure it would be TOTM quite often as the man was amazing.
Growing up without a Father is hard but now I find myself to be GrandFather with another little one on the way so I try to be a great Grandfather and try to emulate things my dad taught me even though I don't remember him much.
I am standing here with my first girlfriend, Georgia. That is my Dad's 1947 Pontiac. The only car we ever had until he died. When we used to go to the beach, on Sundays, he would drive to his fish store and grab a large block of ice, then coat it in sawdust and tie it on the front bumper of that car. At the beach, he would chop it up to put in the aluminum, horsehair cooler. In those days you could back the car up on the sand right near the water.

 
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Oh, I'll collect water April through October. When winter really gets going, I'll toughen the kid up a bit and send him. Of course like most teenagers in this generation, he will ask if he is going to get paid. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
 
Regarding Helio's. Rumor has it there is a shortage of pilots. A lot of the current pilots are Vietnam vets and of the retirement age.

Everyone wants to fly the jets - go figure. Little do they know even the Generals in their jump suits can't save them. Drones are cheaper all around.
 
Just watched "We were soldiers" the other night... Mind if I ask if it was a good representation by Hollywood?

Gibson was good in that movie. Then again, he is good in any movie he is usually in. I can't imagine Hollywood doing anything accurate in regards to a war regardless of what timeline. Maybe back in the 40's when people actually cared about what was said and what we did. Today, not so much.

I usually ignore most movies about war. Only two I actually watch yearly is Kelly's Hero's just because and A Bridge Too Far.
 
I don't remember one movie from the next, but generally they have to put way more violence in a movie than real life or no one would see it. But we weren't generally in heavy combat every day, if we were, I for one would not be here.
I think I remember Platoon seemed realistic.
 
I doubt Gibson is a Veteran, he doesn't look like a Veteran, and if he is, he certainly doesn't look like a combat Veteran. But he is a good actor. Most actors are not Veterans and almost no politicians are.
I wonder why.
 
I doubt Gibson is a Veteran, he doesn't look like a Veteran, and if he is, he certainly doesn't look like a combat Veteran. But he is a good actor. Most actors are not Veterans and almost no politicians are.
I wonder why.

I seem to recall from an interview he did around the time of the movie he said the director made them do some military training. I think Gibson said it was the baby version and nothing that real Rangers or basic trainee's would go through. I probably have it wrong but you get the idea. He basically said they had someone guide them during the movie and that they also spend some time doing some of the drills and early morning runs/exercise. He catches a lot of crap for his actions, more so than many of the other idiots in tinsel town whom we seem to forget and love daily. Go figure.

CCR has a good song which fits the politicians which always reminds me of Mr. Kerry. Fortunate Son.

General Patton was probably the last of our great Generals. In fact, going back and listening to some of his sound bites Mr. Rumsfield reminds me a lot of him. Straight to the point and nothing is sugar coated. There is another fella that got the shaft.

Just one mans opinion.
 
Hi Paul, long time lurker here who has been keeping a tank for about six months. Thank you for your service and kindly sharing all your knowledge. Really love reading your posts and agree with everything you say. I like that you encourage people to remember that reef keeping isn't a competition but a fun hobby with different methods; that attitude often makes me nervous to post. I am 24 and disgusted with my generation. They have no idea what really working is and my friends wonder why they can't get jobs with their History (etc.) degrees. They wonder how I always have jobs but it is because I have developed certain marketable skills (which took years of hard work). I am a third generation commercial fisherman and licensed captain. I am back at school currently but just to upgrade my license, things like licenses and certifications get good jobs now. It is sad to see skilled labor disappearing and men my age unable to even do an oil change on their car. OK starting to ramble just wanted to say thanks for all us lurkers! :lolspin:
 
Ryan, thank you for that nice post. I agree, reefkeeping is not a competition, I don't have the nicest tank on here and I don't care, it is the tank I want it to be and if it crashes tomorrow, it had a good run. It is there for one thing and one thing only, my own enjoyment. I can throw thousands of dollars into it and have a TOTM, but why?
It has been TOTM a few times on other forums and I am proud of that but that was never my goal. It is just a hobby like my metal work, acrylic work, painting and inventing.

I am also disappointed in some of the people in your generation. I don't think I know a 24 year old who could change oil or even a flat and it is embarrassing. Of course we need computer programers, engineers, doctors, and software whatevers, but we also need plumbers, electricians, carpenters, steelworkers, welders and mechanics.
I am very proud that I did not go to college and attained the success I have. (My wife hates when I say that) But I think I have common sence and street smarts which not only allows me to think outside the box, but there is no box. I will be 65 this year (I just got my Medicare card) and in all of those years I have never hired anyone to fix or build anything except once for the air conditioner on my boat, and they screwed it up. I could not live in my neighborhood with these high taxes if I could not do my own work.
College degrees don't impress me at all, anyone with some money could get a degree, even me. I can't get into the technical threads with these very educated people because I lack the technical skills and vocabulary, but I do have the oldest, still running tank here despite my lack of knowledge. When I was in the Army I was promoted to the rank of Sargent in 16 weeks. That is almost impossible and as a construction electrician I became a General Foreman running many men in less than a year after my apprenticeship. That was from common sense, not brains. Then I went on to work in the largest electrical construction firm in NYC as a General Foreman running almost 150 men. All without college.
Now I am enjoying my retirement along with my pension that you don't get with most technical jobs. I also used to get home at 3:00 so I could enjoy my hobbies. Today as I am washing my car or puttering with something interesting I see people walking home from the train station after a long day of work at 8 or 9:00pm. Why would you go through all that college and get a job with no pension to work 100+ hours a week? Usually for less money than a worker in one of the trades.
Of course many people love their jobs, and if you do, I applaud you. I found many aspects of my job interesting, but I would much rather be home playing with my algae bleeny or mandarin. :lmao:
Just my opinion of course and I know many, or even most people here have technical jobs and are much smarter than I am. I admire knowledge, but it is what you do with that knowledge that impresses me.
If I need an operation I do want a Dr. operating on me rather than a plumber and I want a CPA to do my taxes rather than a carpenter. But remember, you may be retired for a long time and if you have a job with a pension, life will be a lot easier.
If I offended anyone, I am sorry but you will just have to get over it, or call me names. You can use something like: baldy, Blue collar idiot, squengeel or just think outside the box and make up something, be creative because that will impress me. Remember, no one on a fish site could offend me, I am a big boy :rolleyes:
 
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