This is why I generally only hang out in my local reef section of these forums ... people are more civil if they have to see you face to face once a month. I mean, why is it so socially acceptable to throw out a RTFM. Can't you start out with RTM, and if someone repeats the behavior, then you go to RTFM. It's about as useful as me replying with something like, "Okay, thanks for the advice. I'll RTM, F."