Hi Phil! Still a little leery of the local forum...
I think 2 days in the dark is CRITICAL for shipped specimens. That was my main point. The 2 seperate group buys we did (via someone who didn't profit at all, but was punished by RC anyway - you probably know who I'm talking about...) was with the same wholesaler, by all accounts a respected one.
In the 1st buy, the flashers ordered were in large bags, black-booted and the acclimation procedure was much like yours - in the dark. Worked fantastic! On the 2nd buy, the flashers arrived in clear, limp, small bags. When I arrived, someone was holding one of the bags to the light, trying to I.D. the species. Although I followed the same acclimation and QT procedures, I lost those 2 flashers (I had ordered 3, but there were DOA's and we split up the remaining - I believe if the they were bagged properly then there wouldn't have been the # of DOA's). So this really isn't in regards to store bought flashers, but those ordered online. Just wanted to know if ZINN22 was referring to store bought or online purchases.
Oh yeah, in regards to tank stress, I've seen female flashers go at each other. I'm not quite sure that this "harem" thing is more like a "truthiness" than an absolute rule. At least within the confines of a glass box.
Meredith