They tend to be long-lived, if you can keep predators away. Of the several scientific papers that I have read that tracked anemones in the wild, their rates of mortality were greatly affected by whether or not they had clownfish, and whether they were located in deeper, rockier environments, versus shallow, sandier areas. Though they CAN potentially live for decades, the reality is that it is rare for them to do so... at least in the field studies I have seen.
It reminds me of some captive fish stories from when I used to work at the Shedd Aquarium in Chicago. They had a captive tarpon there that was in excess of 70 years old. This old fish had lost an eye somewhere along the way, and was slow and lethargic, but he had obviously survived in captivity for many years longer than he would have in the wild.
For people who are producing anemone clones via asexual reproduction (primarily E. quadricolor), it raises the interesting question of where one "life" begins and another ends

If you raise a bunch of clones is their biological clock reset when they split? Or are they simply a continuation of the lifespan of the original adult?