Oh, also I would recommend feeding the male extra for the next several days once he starts eating. Have to build him up after his long fasting! You could move him to a quarantine tank if you have one, or a breeder box in the tank with his mate for a couple days to feed him, or just try to feed him extra little meals in the display, if the other residents allow it. I try to feed him at least double for three days minimum, then extra snacks when possible.