Mr. and Mrs. GSM in a Fight

[Hennessy]

Dear Dr. Phil
It seems that my male and female gsm are in a fight. they are not acting like they acted before. he does not hang around my sebea as much as he used to with her. it kinda seem as if he is hosting in my clam?!? unusual? and she still spends all her time in the sebea. he will ocassinaly hang out in it. also some times it will look like she is attacking him and then attacks her back and then they are normal. when i bought them nearly 2 months ago from dean at atlantis they were doing what i liked to call thier "retard dance" i havent seen them do it in a while. all params are in check sebea is a nice brown/tan color and sticky as hell. Please Dr. Phil help me get my GSM back togather

Thank you
Concerned GSM Owner =)

 

[Anemone]

Dear Concerned GSM Owner,

As long as your female GSM isn't attacking your male to the point of physical damage, there is not a reason to worry yet. If this was a true fight, she would never let him near the anemone, and might not let him live in the tank at all.

And, as a word of caution, ReefCentral has a very large and diverse audience. Many people here either have a loved one, or know someone who has a loved one who has mental challenges, and they generally find the term "retard" offensive. Please be more considerate in future postings.

Kevin

 

[BlackOnyx]

like married people lol

 

[stykthyn]

sounds normal to me, he would be dead if she didn't want him there.