I'm a new reefer and a member of AP. I think it's great that you show the enthusiasm for the hobby that you do. I'm sure that some of the others meant well in their criticism, but they did go overboard. I believe you will do the best for your aquarium that you can. Again, I think those that criticize do care, but perhaps their knowledge could be tempered by reasonable advice. I look at some of the questions raised by some of us newbies and most of the experts take the time to try and gently educate us to increase our knowledge. Harsh criticism is not necessary. It's something that needs to be learned by those that give advice in any forum.
Just my two cents.
Good luck with all your endeavors Chuck. I certainly will be watching.
Dewey