Hugo,
Huge loss for all of us, but incredibly difficult loss for you. I figure things happen for a reason, who the heck knows why but....Rebuild, bigger, stronger, faster growing.
I live to far to be of any help in the moment but when you need frags I am happy to pass on anything you might want. I have a nice little collection, some of your stuff as well so let me know. I am sure there will be tons of offers from others as well to get back all of your prized corals. The fish are another story, so sad. Hang in there and focus on the rebuild, get yourself pumped for what will be, don't dwell on what was (at least as much as you can).