I also started out in Kenpo" Ed Parker" but my boyfriend introduced me to Jujitsu Sanyces Ryu.its really life saving skills.In the end all you want to do is get home and be with your family.Urbans School of Self Defense in Long beach.Worth the drive.My son loves it and he is 10.My boyfriend is a black belt.Im only a white belt but still have the basic skills to take him down while making him scream like a "girl" while hes going down. LOL.Im 5'4 120lbs and he is 6'4 270lbs