I Have been a reformed smoker for 3 years. I have tried to quit at least 4 or 5 times in the past and have failed. Like you, I finally reached the point where I could be successful.
Quiting smoking can be very very difficult but the rewards are great. I smoked for 18 years and at one time, was up to 2 packs / day.
In the past, I have tried cold turkey, but this time I tried "the patch". I didn't exactly follow the directions, but it helped alot.
The point is, do whatever it takes to be successful!
I may just be strange but, to help myself, I occasionally told myself that I didn't need a smoke because I just had one. I know, that sounds stupid, but it worked for me...along with the nicoderm. I quickly weened myself off that, but dont kid yourself, quiting is a lifelong endevour.
At first, I often had dreams of smoking, and often awoke feeling guilty. I even dreamed that I would smoke and hide it from my family and friends.
Once you cycle through a full year, its all downhill from there. I found that as I did something that I havn't done as an ex-smoker, it would trigger the desire to smoke. Even as the seasons changed, the urge would come back.
Don't ever kid yourself into believing that just one won't hurt.
Don't ever pick up another! Remember how many times it took?
You ARE ready! You CAN do this!
Think of your loved ones but...
Do this for Yourself!
Very Best Of Luck!