No worries guys....I'm not moving to DC. I'm staying in St. Louis because St. Louis is VERY different from DC in a good way. I would rather travel to DC for business and stay here most of the time than the other way around. Not once in 38 years has a gun been pulled on me in St. Louis. Being only partially in DC for the last year and a half, I've looked down the barrel of a gun 3 times. (One time it was my fault). Not only that, I was in the building that was anthraxed last year.
http://www.govexec.com/dailyfed/0305/031605p1.htm They turned off the air conditioning and all air moving equipment early in the morning, they didn't give us access to any snack machines, and we were not allowed to leave the building. The governments attitude was, even though leaving these people quarantined in their building will more likely result in their death, at least they can't accidentally spread it anywhere else. They told us they would give us more information in 45 minutes. 9 HOURS LATER, they finally gave a whole bunch of scared people the right to leave the building. (Luckily, the whole thing was a false alarm anyway. Some moron at Ft. Detrick mixed the sample of POSSIBLE anthrax with real anthrax so the test obviously showed positive).
The time that it was my fault that I had to look down the barrel of a gun was the day after they closed our building after the anthrax scare. I thought I took everything that I would need to continue working but forgot one file. The building was still locked down but I tried to sneak in. I got most of the way to my office when I heard a very authoritative command. I spun around to see some sort of semi-automatic weapon about 2 feet from my face and a very angry Army or Marine soldier. Trust me, the Yes sir's and No sirs were prevalent as was, "I'm just an accountant and need a computer file". He didn't let me get the rest of the way to my office and after looking down the barrel of a military rifle, I didn't complain.
DC is very weird. People don't say, "Thank you" or "Please". If you are walking right behind someone going into a store, most people don't hold the door for you. Arab women (and they are everywhere) all think that you are going to harm them and they are terrified of you. (I've never had anyone afraid of me before...it's quite unusual).
I've personally witnessed a suicide, a murder, and a lot of gang violence. (Mind you, this was in the 'high rent' district and not in the slums). All of this is from living part-time in DC, not full-time. There is no way that I would choose to live there full-time. I even turned down a very lucrative offer just so I could be here mostly. Sure there are problems with St. Louis. I'm not unaware of the issues. However, spend an extended amount of time in DC and you will love your home town more too.