i dont think reef central is the right audience. Most people here try their best at providing the best habitat for their animals, we treat them humanely (this is MOST of us, not ALL) and we care for them, we mourne their deaths and we replace them but the replacement gets the same loving care that the old one did.
There are probably double or TRIPLE the amount of people who keep saltwater fish inhumanely, over stock, use feeder fish, keep killing and replacing without knowing why it died in the first place, torturing, using fish to cycle. These are stupid people, thats what i hate, i hate stupid people. Sure we humane smart reefers have lost a few fish/inverts here and there but we do our best not to. The inhumane ones are the ones you should be pestering since they are depleting our reefs a lot faster than we humane ones are.