Wow, there are some really nice and patient people here! I see so many good suggestions that just get tossed aside.
Reeftanks6, you don't really have anything in your tank that your skimmer is going to be pulling out right now. I would not assume your skimmer is broken, you tank is just sterile. So just let it run to get rid of any oils that may be in there, but don't expect to start pulling anything out. Once you add the sand, if you have it running, it will probably pull out the fine silt type sand that gets in the water column. You won't really start pulling anything out until you put live rock in there and start to cycle.
As far as the suggestion to get a refractometer, it is a good one. Hydrometers are notoriously inaccurate, so you may think yours is fine but it could be giving your inaccurate readings. I would definitely invest in one if you are serious about having a reef tank vs. a FOWLR.
You should also be a little more open to peoples suggestions. You have summarily dismissed many peoples concerns after you ask for help. Then you give these terse, dismissive answers, and wonder why your thread is "boring".