If you use too large of a pump, you won't overflow your sump, you'll overflow your display. The size of the drain plumbing in the overflow is what dictates the amount of flow it can handle. For example, draining with gravity, 600 GPH may require a 1" diameter drain pipe. Under pressure/siphon a 1" pipe could handle more flow, like 900 GPH. *These numbers are not exact, just an example. There are calculators on the RC home page to help you determine what your overflow can handle for plumbing/pump flow.
Also keep in mind how much flow you want to travel through your sump. If you plan to use a refugium you may not want to max-out the amount of flow available through your plumbing size. Same goes for your skimmer. If the water travels too fast through the sump, your filtration may not be able to work as effectively.
Another example: 10 total tank volume turnovers per hour through the refugium would be about the max desirable to give your refugium ample time to remove nutrients from the water column. *Again, just an example. Many people are successful using different amounts of flow through their sumps, refugiums, and skimmers. The desired amount of flow is completely debatable and best calculated on a system-to-system basis IMO.