I think everyone needs to step back and take a deep breath. As Geoxman said, PM's are a great way to express feelings.
"But how do I know what I'm ordering from a reefer that is shipping to me? If I put together a list with names, it's gotta be better than saying , "I want the red one with green stripes & the blue one with a pink mouth & yellow skirt."
Pufferpink, to this day, I don't order anything by name. This is the way I have done it for many many years. No one ever ask for something by name until roughly 2 years ago. That's when prices shot through the roof and naming became a distinct marketing tool. Most everyone selling corals has a digital camera. I simply ask for a picture and say yes or no to that purchase. If anyone thinks that every polyp out there has a name, they are gravely mistaken, only the most colorful ones which can fetch a nice profit are named. To this day, I have yet to find anyone, not a single person who can show me 600, 700, 800 or 1,000 pictures of distinctly different zoas and palys with a name. It doesn't exist and it never will. There are so MANY choices out there and I just can't understand why everyone wants what everyone else has. This is a hobby, don't limit yourselves. I only wish I had a picture of every polyp and colony I have own over the past 14 years.
Naming, lineage, pricing and the reefers who have turned this hobby into The Great Race, The Ultimate Competition, King Zoa Collector and My Collection is Better Than Yours, when this stops, I think the hobby will once again rise to the level it once was. Pufferpink, I am not speaking of you my friend, this is just a statement that I have made many times before in the past. And my sincere apology for taking your thread off topic.
I wish this thread below would get as much feedback though. LOL
http://www.reefcentral.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=1283283
Mucho