I know how frustrating it can be, I went through it a few years back, I never found the issue but after dumping all the CaRx media, tossing out carbon and buying new and new membrane, filters and salt and a lot of large water changes things got better. I don't know where the problem was but by taking each part of e system apart one by one and starting with fresh stuff it got better.
Many people have gone through this over the years, there is always a reason but sometimes we do not find the exact cause, sometimes we do, a screw, a coin or something in media that should not be there has also been found.