steve, this is what i did, i have a phosban reactor and filled it from one sponge to the other with no-no3 media from carib sea, this media is mixed with aragonite but i dont think it gets consumed fast enough to be replaced, even so its sold in gallon which will last about 4 to 5 fills of the reactor, on the pump i have an mj1200 which is manifold to 2 other reactors one with carbon and the other to phosban, the pressure is divided between the 3 reactors which work fine with this setup.
i dont recirculate the water inside the reactor, its a straight in and out deal, the inlet and outlet have 1/4" ball valves to contol water going into reactor and going out (just to be safe), i leave the inlet valve all the way open and the outflow valve closed enough to get about a drop a second, my denitirifier with this kind of media took 7 days to cycle which is not bad, it has benn running for 2 months now with no problems, i have 0 nitrate coming out the outflow at 7.8 ph (which is not bad).
btw for the first 7 days you should see nitrite and nitrate coming out of reactor, you can send this water into a bucket just to be safe to not send any sulfur to your tank, when you are comfortable with the results hook it up to your tank and your on your way to 0 nitrate, just remember for it to work you need nitrate in your tank, if your tank is running clean 2-5 ppm it will take time to cycle.
now hydrogen sulfide could be a possibility, i have read that there are 2 ways of producing it, first if water stays stagnate for too long in reactor and second if you run out of nitrate in your tank and suddenly all anaerobic bacteria dies because it starved, so feed heavely, lol, jk
all i have to say i am really happy with my diy project and hope my experience will help you get yours going or double the appologies back.
here are some photos
good luck guys
sana