yeah its big
but if i put a post on here asking for help i really doubt i will get more than 5 replies back most of the time
its too fragmented
Hello frag, I respectfully disagree and I'll tell you why. Let me explain what has happened here. A lot of reefers who have been around a very long time and gave a lot to this forum, well, they left last year along with myself. Many were just tired of seeing the same 4 topics every single day, day in and day out. I was accused of being mean or angry for not wanting to talk about them. I was neither. It's my opinion and my opinion alone, but those 4 topics aren't going to do one single thing to help maintain the overall health and welfare of a single polyp. But many reefers enjoy those topics and I respect that. This forum is for everyone with vast interest as it relates to zoas and palys.
This forum has come a very long way from the days of constant fighting and flaming to what it is today. Again, many left because they were tired and wanted more. So, do I leave for good, or do I try like crazy to spark some new interest, and that's another reason I did this.
Regarding possibly only getting 5 replies, there is a clear reason for that. A lot of people are so afraid to post and are just comfortable lurking and reading. This thread drew some of them out, did you notice that? Also, when many of us see that the post has an adequate answer, they most likely won't add anything else to the thread. I do it all the time. I will even bump a thread knowing the answer to give someone else a chance to answer to get others involved.
The people here are great, if you post it, they will answer. If the answer isn't enough or you want more, then engage the topic with follow up questions. You see, that's what I did in this thread. I didn't just post and leave it. I came back time and time again to engage each reply and kept them coming back. No, it was no trick to make anyone look bad or silly. It was to generate feedback and to get people to think about something different an even think outside the box. It did just that.
I'm asking you to post your questions when you're ready, and do exactly what I did. I wanted to allow this thread to continue until Wednesday. At the rate it was progressing, there would have been over 3,000 views and over 300 replies in just 4 days. At one point I saw 80 reefers in the zoanthid forum. I haven't seen 80 people logged in here at one time in ages. Regardless of why they came to see and read it...they did. And that is another reason I did this. Does any of this make sense at all or was I the fool for doing it?
Mucho Reef
Come back my friend and share with us anytime, OK?