Problem with using a UV for ich is that you can never kill all the parasites. Most of them fall into the substrate as opposed to remaining in the water column. Once in the substrate, they will remain there until they are ready to host again and once in the water column, they will find a host long before they all make it into the UV. You may be able to reduce the population in the water column but the UV sterilizer will never eradicate them and the ich issue will inevitably persist. Thus the reason why most of us agree that a UV sterilizer is not the answer to an ich issue and will not prevent an outbreak either. That said, if a UV sterilizer is setup between two tanks, it can be useful in preventing the spread from one tank to the next if the flow rates are low enough.
Again, we are in agreement. What I meant to say, and my understanding from a conversation with a UV engineer, is that UV can kill ich parasite at a very high dose when the parasite passes through. The dose required for marine ich is much higher than fresh water ich and requires very large UV that is not a hobby grade. In our tank, of course, it is not possible to have all parasites to pass through the UV, for all reasons you mentioned.