First off I want to say that I am new to forums, so if I mess up in the way of forum etiquette I appologize in advance.
I live in Perryville MO with my wife and three daughters. In September 2006 my youngest daughter (7 years old) was diagnosed with an inoperable tumer on her brain stem with a life expectancy of less than one year. Needles to say this news has been devistating to my wife and me.
My daughter has always been fasinated with the sea and sea life. Her favorite movies are Shark Tale and Finding Nemo. She has quite often asked for a nemo fish (clownfish) and I often considered getting back into marine aquariums to make that dream come true for her. When she was in the hospital during her diagnosis I bought a book on reef aquariums for her. She studied the pictures over and over and now has her heart set on a reef tank with two clownfish and one royal gramma.
This is where I need some help. I am on a very limited income especially now with the cost of medical bills and medications. I have priced aquariums and equipment and there is just no way I can buy that stuff new. I am hoping some of you up in Saint Louis who are veterans of the hobby either have or no someone who has an extra aquarium, and/or equipment, stands, ect. at a very reasonable price to help make this dream real for her. I am thinking of anywhere from 30 to 80 gallons. I think the closest to 30 the better to keep the cost of live rock and equipment down.
Also any info on cutting costs would be very welcome. For instance, can I use volcanic or lace rock to substitute some of the live rock? If so, at what ratio. Any cost cutting tips would be most appreciated. If I can make this work, I would also like to join your club in Saint Louis as it is only about one and a half hours away.
Brooke is a very sweet little girl who is going through quite a lot both physically and emotionally. Thank You for any help you might give in cheering her up.