Though this is completly off topic from this thread and does not bear any conection to it, here is why I oppose them and am so vocal about it:
1. Nothing constructive EVER comes from them, they just go around and around and around and around. Nothing is EVER finalized, there is no clear "Best" nor "Worst". Its eactly what it is: gossip.
2. Its easy to criticize and cast stones from a far when this is a completly unfair arena to do so. If a LFS choose to respond to every comment or aligation, they would be attacked like a pack of wolves very much in the way this thread shows an example of.
3. 99.99% the complaints are petty, misinformed, fueled by biases, greed, and emotionaly laced. Though, yes there have been wrongs commited........has it been out of malice, or do we get blinded by our own point of view?
4. Unfortunatly, ego plays a large part of the problem. I suffer from it, you suffer from it, we all do. Its a fact of life that must be kept in check. Being able to "preach to the choir" under the quise of being the "little guy" lets this go unchecked.
5. Cheerleading: Basicly advertising for one who can't and smearing the competition, which could be greed based. Do I have favorites, Yes, but I try to give nuetral views here to let others build thier own opinions as I have. Its not a political campaign and we are not gathering votes.
6. We have all heard it: "Opinions are like bellybuttons, and everyone has one" This is a VAST hobby with many niches, and what you think makes a "good" store may be what I consider not.
7. These are your neighbors, not Walfish as I have said in the past, they are trying just as hard, if not harder to make a living. I would be livid if there was a public forum discussing my hard work. This is just plain poor behaviour to do and is embarassing.
8. If you truely care about the club, its standing in the reefing community and the local area, then its not a constructive nor efficient means to institute change. As I mentioned before, volunteer your time and make POSITIVE suggestions on how to solve a problem you see rather than just complain about one.
9. The REAL purpose of the donations and the raffles are to encourage participation and add some excitement to the club. It is a way for newer members to get that extra little something that could spark thier interest to the next level and keep them in the hobby.
10. Trolls, they love to stir it up........perfect breeding ground.
11. When you have nothing but "Rants and Raves" in which, to comment in, it takes away from the quality and its a "dark ages" of sort. Not only does this not drawn in new people..............it pushes people away.
At the beginning of the summer, I witnessed a surge in new participants during a time of quiet in term of "gossip", I feel that was a direct result of it. I felt we were making good progress together as a group and felt a good vibe. I want to make this a fun place where we can all learn and grow as aquarists together, not a downer full of BS, which is exacly why I jumped on this guy, only to realize I became what I seek to stop.
If you need a place to vent and complain about the "man" while spouting "public forum" and "bad experiences" then fine........
But did you ever notice how few "good experiences" threads there are or think about what it means in the greater scheme of things?