o... Since my Alk hasn't changed, I can assume the bicarbonate is being used up to keep me at the constant 3.0?
Within the errors and uncertainty of kit testing, yes. bear in mind that the demand actually depends on the alkalinity with higher alkalinity leading to higher demand.
It is normal to loose 0.25 to about 1.5 meq/L of alkalinity per day.
If so, I should see Calcium levels at 400 in 10 days give or take at my current rate. Do I have this figured correctly?
Yes, but there is even more uncertainty in calcium measurement, so don't be surprised if it happens substantially faster or slower.