Thanks for the comments.
Looking at what has been said about affecting growth, etc, when I move the tank I will try to isolate this rock so it can grow "as nature intends", but have a better understanding of what my options are if I do need contain the growth at all.
LOL... My luck with these has been just that. Luck. I have no idea how they grew, as I was pretty sure they were as good as dead, but BOOM then they did!
As for my lighting, flow, etc, I have them about 1/2 way up in my 60 cube which is under an 8x24 ATI powermodule, and to be totally honest I don't even know what bulbs are in it. It's a mixture of 4 of one type (which was like a blue plus), one fiji purple (for color only), a 10,000k super actinic (or something) and a couple others. All of it was recommended by the Reefgeek folks.
For flow, I previously had 3 Koralia 3's running and 1 K1. I would only run 2 of the 3 K3's at once, they would rotate on a 12hr cycle. I got sick of the rattling and the amount of hardware in the tank so I put in a single Vortech MP-40w which I run at about 60% on Reefcrest mode which seems to do very well through the tank. Seems the vortech made a huge difference where my Finger coral (spaghetti coral?) got HUGE in a couple months, my Trumpet & Torch corals are now extending their feeders MUCH more than they ever have before and are growing quite well, but my acans died very quickly and a piece of birdsnest that was growing wonderfully just inexplicably died. All water parms remained the same.
Salinity 1.025
pH swing 8.1-8.4 (depending on the day)
kH 11
Cal 440
Magnesium 1350
I feed the fish (2 clowns, 1 lawnmower blenny & a green mandarin) pellets generally every day (sometimes I may skip a day, and yes, my mandarin eats pellets - go ahead and be jealous over that one LOL), and dose with Vitamin C, Zoomax (although I ran out a few weeks ago) and Chromax. As well as adding PhytoFeast for the pods in my sump. I feed Rod's frozen foods once a week (and today is the day - also, sidenote, Rods is how I got my mandarin to eat ANYTHING. It took 2 days of spotfeeding rods and he took to it. Now, he eats anything) and I spot-feed mysis weekly to the acans, trumpets, torch, suns & even give a touch to my rics. All of my frozen foods are laced with garlic & selecon.
The phyto REALLY made my feather duster population skyrocket (if you look and think you see aiptasia, it's a feather duster. Really, I'm pretty new but definitely know that difference).
Ultimately, I probably put too much crap (additives) in the tank, but honestly everything seems to be doing quite well (with the exception of the mystery death of the birdsnest which could likely have been the flow change) and the Acans which went to hell when I left on vacation for 2 weeks and they just aren't recovering. The tank was fed, but nothing was spotfed during those 2 weeks.
Here's a couple of pics I shot this morning.