Just an update, I moved everything from the tank that was about to crack into the tank/stand in my house. However I apparently did not do as good of a job as I thought on the stand because you could slide paper in between the stand and tank along the front corners. I noticed this after I noticed one of the seams showing bubbles that were well beyond the 'normal AGA silicone job' type of bubbles. I noticed them on 9am on Tuesday (put everything in the tank on Sunday night) and by 6pm Tuesday, they were worse.
So we tore it down, again, on Wednesday, put a piece of 3/4" ACS plywood down and set the tank on that, and then shimmed between the stand and the plywood. As it turns out, the entire right and left sides were floating off the stand. I did the plywood based on a recommendation from a local reef club member, and it most definitely was the way to go. Thick, rigid, heavy plywood that ACS stuff. Has an orange stripe on one end.
By Thursday, all the other seams started showing little bubbles too. But a few of the ones on the original seam went away, except for the biggest one right at the top of the left front corner of the tank, which is the worst of all. So I put a bar clamp on it. None of the other bubbles have gotten any worse then they were within 24 hours of the re-fill. However the tank is still not full, about 15+ gallons short, just so I could monitor the bubbles. I will be adding 5 gallons per day and watching the bubbles. But the tank is pretty much toast now IMO and when I get this all transferred back to the original owner in a few months, I will basically have to either pay to have it re-sealed or I will have to move it to my garage so that I can test fill it w/o the bar clamp and see if it holds for 6 months, or buy a new tank. Sux.
Bottom line here is that my personal advice to anyone making one of these stands is to make 100% sure that the stand is in full contact with the tank all the way around. The advice I was given was to take the 2x6s and nail a guide to it that was flat and run the other side through a table saw/fence to make one side true, then flip it over and run the other side so that you have a top box that is flat and true on both sides. If you cannot do this, get wood that is as flat and true as possible, build it, plane and sand, set the stand in place and put the tank on, and run a piece of paper all around between the tank and stand. if it goes through for any sections large enough (like 6", and especially on the corners) then you either have more sanding to do or you need to go the plywood/shims route.
Whatever you do, make sure the stand with flat and level, and the tank is in full contact with the stand. Mine wasn't, and now I basically just threw more than $300 down the toilet. That and my wife probably won't let me put another tank up in it's place.