Alright, if you want to go all emo, i'm done trying to help now. No one EVER said not to buy one from the wild, I know especially that I did not say that. Please try to understand what is being said, not just skim over it and ask the same line of questions again later on in the same thread, and then double post it in ANOTHER thread that is completely unrelated to the issue. Buying a wild captured clown fish tells you nothing of its age or sex, unless you are being given a guarantee from the place selling them what you will receive in the shipping container when you receive it. You could very well receive a female fish, out the money you spent on that fish, and the money you spend on that shipping if its not local, and you still have a fish you need to figure out what to do with when the one you already have wants to eat its face off, pardon my french.
You seriously need to just slow down, go read some information on the subjects you are having issues with, and see if you cant figure out a solution without having to keep asking simple questions that 30 seconds worth of searching the boards here would answer. Everything you have asked both here, and about your 'nem in the other threads are all issues and subjects that have been discussed AT LENGTH in the past, that information doesn't just disappear, but its going to stop just magically showing up in your threads if you want to keep ignoring the help that IS being provided.