Thx all!!!
Ok guys. The tank will sit on a 12" deep base cab on the kitchen side...this will continue the "look" of the rest of the cabs. I will build a wall or "stand", for the other 12" on living room side. The kitchen side base will have full functionality, (doors open/storage). The quartz countertop will be a total of 37" wide so that it holds the whole tank plus an additional 13" of "bar ledge" on the kitchen side. Our dining room table, )that we've never had), will be where the refrigerator is currently in the photos. Because of this we are trying to save a bit of room by not having the whole tank on the kitchen side.
I also want to add that there will be no canopy..i plan to use 4+ par 38s, that hang from the header. Most likely a glass or screen top. The sump will be in the basement.