I used SE for 5 years, and switched to DE last year. I really like the DE fixture. I have the Aquamedic Oceanlight with 3 250's DE and T5 actinics. I'm very happy with the fixture. It's nice having the ballast remote for heat reasons. That said, now that coralife sells the aqualight fixtures with 250's, I would definitely compare them as well. At the time I bought mine, coralife only sold fixtures with 150-watt DE.
Over the last twelve months, I have really come to enjoy my DE bulbs. They seem to provide more glimmer lines, and these flashes of intense light on the coral tissues seems to benefit them. To be honest though, I had success with both types of bulbs. Both can provide great coloration and growth. There really isn't a way to define one better than the other. They both work, and it boils down to preference. Sometimes, your favorite bulb comes in one style only, or is optimal in PAR in one form or other.
For me, the benefits of DE are in the fixture, not the bulb. I like having a suspended light, with reflectors designed to keep light in the tank. It is true that the DE have a more narrow dispersal. But this is a good thing when using a suspended light fixture. It keeps the glare down. I also like the width and height of the fixture. The smaller bulbs and complementing reflectors allow the fixture to stay slim. This makes working in the tank easier, and it looks nicer.
I will say that I do have better coloration now. But I attribute that to the quality of the bulb I'm using, not the style of the bulb.