I have a hydrometer that I 'calibrated' with a freshly calibrated refractometer. The hydrometer read 0.004 too low. So I labeled it with that info. It's been in use for years and every time I re-calibrate my refractometer (every 6 to 9 months) I compare readings with the hydrometer again. Many years on and the hydrometer is still 0.004 too low.
Every hydrometer is different. Just get it compared to a good refractometer and label it. After that, keep it clean and watch for bubbles on the swing arm. As billdogg said, consistency is as important as an exact reading. I hardly ever use my refractometer.