For the small fan and heatsink, the 48W is simply too much power. You'll need to use something with more energy movement - CPU coolers with heat pipes work pretty well, as do larger slabs of aluminum with 80mm fans.
The small round heatsink might work with a lot more forced airflow - but the little quiet 40mm is not going to cut it.
That's what I was afraid of I want to use the 48 watt the tank is a 36 cube 28 deep so I want more power to drive to the bottom