OK.... let me settle down.... and try a different approach. Don't mean to get testy.
So.... everything flows due to gravity. Water seeking it's lowest level. The force behind every thing is gravity. This I'm sure we can agree on.
Say we have a tank of water with 2 feet of water and a drain valve at the bottom. What we have is 2 feet of head pressure. We open the drain on a 1" inch line and it will flow what a 1" line will flow with 2 feet of head pressure. As the tank drains, head pressure decreases, and flow will slow accordingly. At some point a vortex will form at say 4" of water. Flow will slow again simply because now the line has air in it. Flow will never stop though until all water drains.
Now, lets say we set that tank on a 3 foot stand. The valve still only has 2 feet of head pressure, and it will flow the same as it did.
Now, lets move that drain valve to the floor. Now we have 5 feet of head pressure sitting on top of it. When we open the valve all the way, the line will now flow more water because of the higher head pressure on it.
OK....so much for a simple drain...... let's move on to a siphon.
We have the same 2 foot tank of water on the ground. We put a U-tube over the side of the tank. Extend one side 6 inches into the water, and the other side goes to the ground. We have no flow. We must start the siphon. We suck on the other end to anitiate flow.
What we now have is 6" of head pressure on the tank side pipe. On the other side we have in effect 2 feet of head pressure. The weight of water in the two foot side is driving... or pulling... on the 6" of head pressure in the tank. The net positive head you are working with is STILL 2 feet because the water has to rise in the pipe. It will flow the same water than the 2 feet of head pressure in our above example. It continues to drain the tank. As that 6" of head pressure decreases inside the tank, flow slows accordingly because now the water has to be "lifted" above the side of the tank. Yet on the other side of the tank you still have that 2 foot of water driving the system, or pulling it over the side of the tank. The net positive result is you still have 18" of head driving flow when it gets to the bottom of the 6 inch pipe inside the tank.
So... what happens then??? Well the tank drains to 6". Then air enters the siphon and breaks flow. Air inside the tube is not heavier than water. It can't pull anything. The siphon stops flow, the tank remains at 18" Further action is required to initiate flow again.
Now lets put that tank on the 3 foot stand and extend that siphon to the floor and the pipe inside the tank to the bottom of the tank.
You have the exact same setup as the above example. On the outside leg, you have the weight of 5 feet of water moving water. The same as a simple drain with the valve at the floor. The flow is very fast, but as the tank empties, it gets sower until air enters the system then breaks the siphon, and we still have say 1" of water left in the bottom. Flow stops. Further action is required to get it going.
So... what does all that mean??? What drives everything is gravity and the weight of the water column from one level to the lower level. The difference is that with a tank with a drain at the bottom, water will flow regardless of any action out the bottom of the tank till it is all gone. Period.
What a siphon gives is the ability to "lift" water by using the weight of a longer leg of water on the other side to do the work. We use the water weight against itself to "lift" water over the edge of a container. Because if there is no drain at the bottom, how do we get the water out? We use the siphon and the water wieght to give a net head pressure to drive the system.
Why people mistakenly say a siphon moves more water than a simple drain is this.....
If we have a 18" stand pipe inside that same two foot tank. Water will drain due to the 6" of head pressure at the stand pipe. It will probably not flow much and create a vortex and allow air in. It will drain slower and slower until the 6" of water is gone to the level of the top of the stand pipe. We look at that and say..... hummmm it took 5 minutes to drain 6" of water.
OK.... now lets use a siphon with 6" inches of pipe into the water and 5 feet to the floor. We start the siphon.... and we drain that 6" of water in 2 minutes. Hummm... a siphon flows more water.
Not so fast..... the siphon has the advantage of 5 feet of head pressure driving it. It DOES NOT flow more than a drain that has 5 feet of water above the drain valve. It has the SAME flow. Yet we say a siphon drains water faster. But it important to compare apples to apples and look at the height of the water column driving the system. 6 inches versus 5 feet.
So a siphon is a bent tube that allows us to "lift" water above a level. But air getting in decreases the weight of the water column and will eventually break flow. A drain just drains.
The difference with Dursos and other stand pipe with u tubes at the end it that you need the air break in there to prevent a siphon action. Because at one point the tube overflows with air, but then it gets so full and all of a sudden flows a LOT more because a siphon. And it will continue to go back and forth like that. How ever... you are going from a head pressure of 2 inches, to all of a sudden 5 feet when the siphon begins. Then it cycles back and forth. So you need the siphon break to allow air to allow the pipe just to overflow.
Now.... does any of that help??? I mean that sincerely.