Ok, seems as if I just a little more sensitive to the noise than others. Using the Durso, no matter what I've tried, the noise was still annoying. (Keep in mind that the tank is in my bedroom about 6ft away from my bed)
So I decided to give Herbie's method a shot after testing almost every possible combination.
One word: WOW!
Herbie was not exxagerating when he said it was SILENT. THANKS Herbie :beer:
Now the only thing I can hear is the annoying pump hum which I think is caused by vibrating off the bottom of the sump. A couple sheets of thin closed sell foam didn't work...
I did a quick test to see how this method worked and sounded so I still have some re-planning/plumbing to do.
What does the height of the stand-pipe have to do with anything? I tested this method using a standpipe about 1/2 of the way up and again without a standpipe at all and did not notice a difference in performance.
I'm guessing the only reason for a tall standpipe is to prevent water in the overflow to flow back into the sump.
I also noticed that it was difficult to get the water level to stabilize, esp. with ball valves. I'll have to order some gate valves...
Do the gate vavles need to be positioned vertically?
Thanks