but she is too mean! worse than any dog I've seen and my dad has been hunting ducks forever.
She'd rather chase him off than eat herself.
She took the bigger&better cave too, and chases him off from the smaller one.
I shake my finger and snap fingers at her with "BeBe, no fighting!" (I used to chase her off with water splash by my hand) and she kind of goes behind the rocks, but the Little Guy is no better off. I can't be there all the time.
You will be unable to influence the process at all. Assuming that she is a she and he is not a she all will be fine
How would I know they are ready to mate? She will become nicer? they will start "cleaning an area"
He will care for the brood anyway. both will care for the eggs, neither will care for the brood
Where will they lay the eggs - rocks or the cave? rocks
Is there anything I can do to tone down the violence... no
Can I get some cleaner shrimp perhaps? clownfish do not allow cleaning behavior
I got this tank setup recently on CL and I love it, just want her to mellow out
since this thread is only about marine fish compatibility, I have to get it back on track. The book Clownfish by Joyce Wilkersen will provide everything you need to know.