Ok, you are talking about different things here. The resin is the DI stage and goes (generally) in a vertical housing. The horizontal housing is the RO membrane.
DI resin gets used up faster than the RO. I recently replaced mine using bulkreefsupply's nuclear color change stuff. Works fine. I paid about $20 for the resin and a refillable cartridge shipped. Now I have two cartridges and when I need to replace the resin again, it'll be like $15 shipped.
Most filters use the standard pre-filters, so any brand should be fine I'd guess. I buy bulk packs from bulkreef because I change them so often due to well water. Home Depot even carries ones that will fit, though I'm not sure if they specify the size rating on the filters since most just seem to be "whole house" type replacements.
Some have used dual DI filters in series (one after the other). I have a portable and permanent mount meter and watch the water output to be sure I don't have issues, so I have not bothered adding another DI stage. Once TDS gets to 0, the second stage does not remove any more, it's just there in case the first stage gets used up and passes some junk, the second stage will catch it.