well, i think colt (winwood) got it right.
i debated several methods for introducing this new nigripes to my existing female.
i decided to place the new fish in a shallow round plastic container. clear and with several holes drilled all over it, i placed inside a small rose bubble tip, the fish, and hooked it to my magnetic algae scraper. this i placed right up in the nearest magnifica, i turned off the halides and T5s and let everyone just adjust over night.
the next 36 hours i kept the halides off and only the T5s on their regular photoperiod. i spent several minutes through out this time hiding from view and peering into the tank to see how my existing female would take seeing another nigripes this close to her home.
she hardly noticed.
the other clownfish just hugged the little rose anemone and didnt seem bothered either. there was only one instance where they made eye contact and the new fish seemed to give a little reverse tail flick and that was it. my optimism grew as my females aggression seemed nonexistent.
so this morning, after seeing no adverse behavior, my impulsiveness decided to release the new fish into the magnificas. the fish went inside and buried itself, while my female seemed completely uninterested (contrary to when i added five SA captive bred nigripes and she immediately went crazy chasing and corralling them into the lower corner of the tank.)
an hour later i came down to check on them again, making sure to check the floors first. i completely expected to see a beaten, ragged nigripes on my carpet, chased from the tank. but, much to my surprise and endless delight the new fish was clearly in the open, snagging food drifting by the magnificas. my female would swim by unconcerned. the longer i watched, the more behavior i saw as they actually interacted: some submissive body jolts from the new fish and some rock cleaning from the female.
spectacular!
so as of this writing, it looks like colt was right. my current female was a small because of how long she had been alone. the new fish was most likely already a male. so....now to wait for some eggs. or a change of heart from my female....