Physics is Physics. If the 2 tanks are vat the same level, so will the water. Using 2 pumps WILL end in a flood, it's just a matter of when. Even 2 identical pumps will eventually flow at different rates, and unless you are there to monitor them 24/7/365 that idea will fail.
I disagree. With two pumps that you can adjust the speed on the tanks don't have to have the same level in them. If the output is faster then the input the sump will run lower. Also if the pumps run at the same speed you won't have an over flow the level will stay the same in the sump. As far as drift in pump speed you could calibrate the pumps and use flow meters. Level sensors could be used to prevent over flow and stop the pumps. A computer could monitor the system the same way people use computers to track PH and ect. The only way your going to run with two tanks level is by using pumps. Trying to say it has to be below is a load of BS. It's 100% a better set up but it does not have to be done that way. You don't have to gravity feed all systems. In fact most places that use tanks with liquid don't.
You don't know what your talking about I worked with systems that do all kinds of stuff like this for years. I've seen pumps of all kinds set up to do all kinds of stuff and none of the set ups were with one tank higher then the other. As far as clogs you have to check your pumps rath it be one or two. Now that I think about it this could also be done with one pump and a water bridge as well.
Sure - you can use two pumps to move water in one direction - nobody is saying you can't. What I (and others) are trying to get across is that although using pumps in each tank to move water back and forth CAN be done, it WILL NOT WORK LONG TERM for our purposes using standard off the shelf aquarium pumps. Sooner or later (sooner) one will pump faster (or slower) than the other, creating an imbalance of flow. What happens next is water on the floor.
Sure, I suppose if you want to completely clean the entire plumbing system frequently (weekly?) and then load test each pump before returning it to use, you could make it work. Who would want to???
Now - to the OP's question (now that it has been clarified) - since the sump is sitting lower than the DT (not necessarily underneath) it is a simple matter of using the appropriate sized return pump in the sump to move the water back to the DT. If at all possible, avoid 90 degree turns to make the flow smoother. This is how pretty much every sump I have ever seen or heard of is set up.
I like your set up- I'm debating about doing the same thing- are you worried at all about the plywood bowing (left tank).
Thanks