Glad you are deciding to keep it, but i will play devils advocate here for a quick second.
Ahem... Once again, only you can decide if it is too much for you. I for one would not push someone into doing something that they do not feel right doing. If the tank is just overwhelming you, let her go for now. Life does not always give us all the time we want or need. If it comes down to it, sell of the fish and corals and store the equipment away, start with that. Sell off anything that would not be used in your new planned setup. Now you will only have what you need for your new setup and have all the old junk gone when you are ready.
Having a new baby, as you already know, is going to bring emotional ups and downs (first tooth, unexpected doctor visits ...etc) that come with a newborn and from EVERYONE involved. It is going to tax you a bit and will be a learning curve for you for sure (now there is two of them to juggle). Will probably overwhelm you a bit and make you think you dont have time for the tank, but, like said, there is always a little time to sneak in there and do a few things to the tank. If not, shut her down until you pick up on that learning curve I mentioned. You ever hear all them stories about the first one that comes along and every bell and whistle goes off, then, when the second one comes, its like hey, where's the baby, havnt seen her/him in 5 days :lol: .
I would not worry about getting back to the fish store on a daily bases, you dont really need to. Take it slow for now. Get only the items you need and get outta there. Who knows, you may find you have another direction in life, but, till then, keep a little time and a peice of this world for yourself, for now.
Sensei says "learn that family balance and life will show you the road you want to take".
