I prioritize quiet over all other parameters. I have I focused on quiet for every piece of equipment in my tank. No equipment the silent , But some are very quiet.
After trying quite a few pumps including eheim and syncra silent, I am satisfied with the Sicce syncra PRO for my return. This is completely different than the Sicce syncra silence. I have it sitting on a silicone mat and enka-mat to deaden the vibration. After running for a few days, it is exceptionally quiet. I had planned to get a vectra S1 but I don't think I will need to provide this pump stays sufficiently quiet.
Without the pump running, inside my stand was at 40 dB. With the pump running, it jumped to 49 dB with the iPhone right next to the pump.
Best of luck in your pursuit