It should require only a very small wire between the probe and a grounging source to provide a ground against stray voltage. A probe is really not designed to be considered as protection against things like a light falling into your tank. The probes ground wire can be attached to a outlet at a distance or even to a metal water line or a radiant heating systems metal pipe.
Many home grounds are connected to well casings or water main pipes. Wells are in contact with ground water which is an excellent ground, much superior to a 10 foot long ground rod which is often used in modern day construction. Especially if the rod is placed in often dry soil such as under a roof over hang or in a homes crawl space.
Most industrial automation control manafacturers and suppliers are more specific in requiring that control grounds and water grounds be seperate. Most automation control manafacturers such as Omron and Omega, GE, Westinghouse etc. even specify that the circuits feeding controls be on seperate circuits if there are probes used with the controllers or meters. Most Thermo Orion, Oakton and professional level Hanna pH users manuals make mention of this issue. Hanna's cheaper non profeesional meters manuals seem to omit this information.
Aquarium trade manafacturers are known for cutting more corners and being more vague in their instructions, specifications and requirements than the major manafactures and distributers of professinal level controllers and test meters. But when you look at the huge cost differenes between a Thermo Orion meter and a aquarium trade pH meter thing seem more understandable.
The legal liabilities faced by manafacturers and distributers of professional controls and test meters are much larger than those faced by the aquarium trade product manafacturers and distributors. Most products by Thermo Orion, Cole Palmer, Oakton etc. have their manuals gone over by many design engineers (peer reviews and third eye reviews) and typically lawyers before rheir realease for reasons of libailities, this is hardly the case with aquarium trade manafacturers. Actually most designers of professinal equipment have a production departments whose only job is to review contracts, manuals, proposlas and such to protect the design and manafacturing firms in regard to liabilities.
Quality GFCI outlets now are being made where the outlet will not function at all unless there is a proper ground or where the outlet is not fully wired properly. In the past the GFCI aspect would not work if there was not a ground or if the common wireand the load wire were reversed but power would stll be supplied to the outlets. There are still cheap GFCI outlets sold that operate that way.
Even other test probes will often cause interference with each other.